—- alright, let me just clarify things a bit more since you don’t seem to get it and that is completely fine. i agree that calling you a ‘bitch’ was uncalled for, it’s wrong. am i going to say sorry? no. it’s past. there’s no use apologizing. i already said it. let’s just move on from that.
if you want proof, i’ll talk to my friend and get her to talk to you or she can post the asks she’s gotten. and nope, all of the bitterness pretty much washed away after i made the post. i don’t see reason to talk about it privately seeing as i was in the wrong and didn’t communicate properly or didn’t address you as soon as possible, but now that i have, i don’t see how talking things out privately will solve anything. this is how this whole thing started. because people were coming to me privately. i can listen to people, i can talk to people privately but when it becomes hate, and constant hate that i’ve told my friend to move on from and just ignore you but she can’t, then it has to be brought to your attention. i kept it private because everyone needs to vent, but if i’m constantly being used as a ranting board towards someone i’ve settled things with, that’s when it becomes my problem. i don’t want to deal with this just as much as you, but if you really want to talk to someone you need to talk to my friend. don’t know if has the snapshots she took from mobile because i was too stupid to just delete everything from mine thinking it would never reach this point but it has.
and i guess my straight forwardness makes me sound like an ass because i was making things clear so we could at least settle our part of the misunderstanding. so if i came off as an ass, it was not my intention i just sound like one when i don’t write a formal essay. and if i had a really bad personal vendetta with you why would i follow in the first place? we wrote a bit, then you went on hiatus and we were cool. besides the name calling that came from my out burst today i constantly left you alone and constantly told my friend to ignore you if she had a problem. so, i’ll tell my friend to talk to you, but if she doesn’t hopefully things are settled with us, and if not at least we tried.
actually i disagree on the apologizing bit tbh. i expect from you the same amount of respect i give you so i’d appreciate the same.
then tell her to talk to me if she has such a problem with me?? i don’t know who the friend you’re talking about is. i don’t want proof, all i’m saying it, put yourself in my shoes. i don’t talk to you, none of my friends talk to you, i don’t get messages about you, we coexist peacefully without interaction – and suddenly ‘alright i’m the only one with balls to say it’ like ???? do you even realize how this whole thing comes across? you say it has to be brought to my attention, yet you did it in a way that if i tried defending myself, i’d be a bitch so…
there’s really no misunderstanding on my end– i’m just gonna be blunt and say that i think you’re overestimating how much i care. hell, fine, if i need to talk to your friend, then i will, bc seriously i’m getting hella tired of all this. what i don’t want is to come on to find people bitching about me when i have absolutely nothing to do with this whole situation, other than the fact that it’s my name getting dragged through the mud.
